I want my mom and dad back!!!’ I’m 19 and an orphan

I need to guys to come back! Their both dead and people keep telling me I am a young grown ass woman and I need to coop with living without then and warned me that they wouldn’t be around forever. They were BRUTALLY BLUNT about it. I want my parents back! 😔😔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I don’t understand why people are so harsh with me a lot more than anybody else.

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4meAndyou · F

Of course you know in your heart of hearts that your parents are dead and they can not come back. I know for sure that they did not want to die or to leave you.

It is normal to rage against cruel realities, but all our crying will not change them.

Instead, search for your "parents" in living people, who can help you, and talk to you, and give you great advice.

The world is filled with those who really care, and they will be happy to step up and help you, as long as you are not too angry about something that can never be changed and don't lash out at the wrong people.

LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F

@4meAndyou I can’t search for parents. You only get one set of parents in your life. Even though my late mom wasn’t a good mom and abandoned me, I still miss her. My dad was an incredible father. I miss him too. So you’re saying we can show our feelings and hold it in?? I might as well since people want me to forget my “horrible” mother.

4meAndyou · F

@LaylaTheTallGirl My mother was abusive and completely unable to express any sort of affection. And yet I found "other mothers" in my life. My Aunt, and both grandmothers. I loved them very dearly and they taught me what little I didn't teach myself about cooking and cleaning.