Why does everyone want me to be social?

I was forced to talk to two relatives this week and both insisted I take college courses in person. Why do I have to be super social and take classes that way? Just because thats how they did it and they’re such successes after all. Whats wrong with being a loner? I see people once in a while and thats all I need. Im fine being by myself, it’s how Ive been all my life. Im a loner and thats fine.