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My mother doesn't stop

So I'm not sure how she found out but she sent me a very hurtful text message today

So, I have learned that Star in leaving in a few months. ( For those who don't know Star has been living with us and has been helping with the kids for a while now). This concerns me. I feel it is unexpectable for two gay men to raise a girl. There is now way you can meet her needs as she grows into a teenage. It's bad enough that you baby her by allowing her to walk around with that silly bag of toys and what ever else. She needs to raises with a strong woman figure in her life. One that will train her how to a strong woman. Not believing all her problems can be solved by a bag of toys and don't get me started on the ear plugs she thinks she needs. You allow her to think she has some made up mental issues just like you. I feel you should give full custody to me so I can undo the damage before it's not to late. This will be resolved before Star moves away. It's sad that you have once again chased away a mother figure. We will talk about this on Easter. You man friend and his disabled son are not allowed to come over. Dinner is at 3 pm. Don't be late. You will not bring those silly bags with you and if you can't control your fake outbursts you will wait outside. Wear something nice and in spring colors.

I don't even have words for this right now
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Poppies · 61-69, F
Wow. Your mother is unbelievably out of line. I hope you gave her a heads up not to expect you for Easter. In general I think people tend to be too quick to go "no contact" with their relatives, but this is a case that cries out for it, if ever there was one.
You are a strong person and you should keep remembering and being proud.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@Poppies I told her we had other plans. I will not allow her to treat my family that way.
Wow, moms can be so savage in a way that no one else can be towards their children. Brings said children to their knees.

So very sorry she said such hurtful things. Hold your child and your SO, their love will remind you of your worth and can put your feet firmly on the ground.

Hoping tomorrow is a much better day for you.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@dragonfly46 thank you.
nobodyishome · 31-35, F
At least you have a phone to receive text messages :)
thats plenty of words tho
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Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@OlderSometimesWiser trust me we won't be going over there for Easter or any other day for that matter. I won't put my kids though that!
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What is the silly bag of toys and ear plugs?
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
@MsSwan a sensory bag. It has things in it to help her stay comfortable when she gets overstimulated. We have fidget toys, a book, her head phones sunglasses, lotions, lip balm. her iPod and ear buds.

 
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