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Update on the kids

Today has been absolutely horrible for them. Today they had to say goodbye to their daddy. 💔
I won’t share what they said to him in the hospital. Those words were real, raw, and painfully honest. They came straight from their little hearts, and some things are just too sacred and heartbreaking for me to put into words right now.
Now we’re home, trying to figure out how to do this part.
Buddy and I gave each of them one of Daddy’s favorite Royals shirts and hats. Just something of his to hold onto. Something that smells like him, something that reminds them of him, something they can wear and feel a little closer to their daddy.
The boys are curled up together in his recliner, wrapped in his fuzzy “man blanket.” Sissy is curled up in their big bean bag chair beside the fireplace, wrapped in his favorite Royals blankets.
His chair. His blankets. His favorite team playing on the TV.
Everything around them is so familiar, but somehow everything feels completely different now.
The Royals are winning tonight, but I don’t think anyone is really paying much attention to the game.
They’re just trying to get through tonight without their daddy.
And I think that’s all any of us can do right now. 💔
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Confined · 56-60, M
This just brought tears. Jeremy was a great guy and once the heart repair was done i thought he had a fighting chance. I looked forward to his reports.
Hang in there. Its going to take all of you to bring back some normalcy. It will take time.
Look for ghosts. Im sure he will be there in spirit to try and help.
nowic2 · 61-69, M
My condolences on your loss.
You say you have no clue on how to handle it.
I have lost my wife and a son. If I were to loose my other son. I would still feel I had no idea.
I’m guessing you’ve not been in this situation before, I certainly hope not.
It’s incredibly hard but take one step at a time.
With time you will hopefully begin to believe you can do it. You definitely can. For your self, your boys and their daddy.
Make sure you give yourself space to grieve.
Best wishes
Poppies · 61-69, F
It sounds like you are doing the best that anyone could do.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
I hope so. We have no clue how to do this
Poppies · 61-69, F
@Cigarguys They know that you love them and you're trying to help them find their way through the pain.
HikingMan · 56-60, M
@Cigarguys Nobody knows how to do this.

Peace
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I know it feels like the world should stop and take notice right now. Please know that some of us are...
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
I prayed for you and your family that you all may find healing. 🙏🙏🫂✨
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
I still can't compute it all in my head , so I can't imagine how they feel tonight. Some days Jeremys' was the only comment on a singing post I made, saying, " I really enjoyed this." I just can't believe he's passed 🙁 You are doing so well with the kids , and we appreciate your update. Side note, did any other symptoms appear in the last month concerning the valve or was it all last night /today at once?
That is so hard!! I know it's hard for everyone, but when kids lose a parent it's especially devestating.
GoFish ·
our thoughts are with you all in this time of loss ... 🥹
Gonna be a day, an hour, sometimes a minute at a time. No right or wrong way to grieve. There’s just being there to love, support and hold onto each other, making your way through the darkness as you walk this painful path.
Lilnonames · F
what you say gave me the chills-i pray
HikingMan · 56-60, M
* Tears - No words....

😢
Musicman · 61-69, M
May God bless all of you 🙏🙏🙏 Sometimes the familiar is good. No one needs to know what they said. Something's should be private.

 
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