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If you have a daughter, let them know this

Daughters, you are not the prize to be won. You are the judge deciding if he deserves to be chosen!

Girls grow up thinking the goal is to be pretty enough for a boy to decide if he wants them. Actually, the goal is not to be picked but to pick someone that is worth your time!

Ask yourself if he adds value to your life or if he is someone that just makes you feel good, because feeling good only lasts three months but value lasts a lifetime.

A boy who adds value makes you sharper not softer. He challenges you to grow and not stay comfortable. He has a plan for his future and not just feelings about his present.
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those are very good and true words...i bet you're a good wife and mom ....i already know you're a good lady and friend.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@beermeplease thank you beery
Ambersky · 51-55, F
Absolutely! I passed that lesson onto my daughters. I had to learn it the hard way.
caccoon · 36-40
Yesss, I spent so long trying to be "picked" and it made me a miserable, anxious mess.

I'm so much happier now.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I said much of this to my daughter.
I’m actually crying after reading this 😭
Wonderful words.
Wonderful mom ❤
Father2 · 61-69, M
Very wise counsel, indeed.
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
Words of Wisdom.
DatingGrace · 31-35, MNew
Nice idea but not how real life works. Sadly.
Mothers and fathers, raise your sons to be respectful, raise your daughters to know their worth.

 
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