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If you have a daughter, let them know this

Daughters, you are not the prize to be won. You are the judge deciding if he deserves to be chosen!

Girls grow up thinking the goal is to be pretty enough for a boy to decide if he wants them. Actually, the goal is not to be picked but to pick someone that is worth your time!

Ask yourself if he adds value to your life or if he is someone that just makes you feel good, because feeling good only lasts three months but value lasts a lifetime.

A boy who adds value makes you sharper not softer. He challenges you to grow and not stay comfortable. He has a plan for his future and not just feelings about his present.
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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I totally agree. Now, more than ever a couple who decide to unite for life need to provide a synergy to each other. To be a team as best they can to make a go of it for each other and for their children. Personally, I helped my wife become what she always wanted to be and watched her grow as a person and a mother through it. And I sure as hell wouldnt have gotten as far as I did without her shoulder to shoulder with me for fifty years. And on the way our kids learned from us, made their own mistakes, but come through it and have done us proud.. 😷