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Time for girl talk

So the moment of parenthood that I was dreading most of all came about yesterday evening 🥺 My daughter decided she needed a heart-to-heart talk about Will, a boy in the year above her at school whom she has managed to name-check in every other sentence she has uttered in the past fortnight 🙄

I'm recovering from flu, so wasn't in the most receptive frame of mind. My wife, who has been delegated all the tricky biological stuff, was working her shift 😭

I know next to nothing about teenage boys 🤷‍♀️ I have seen Will from a distance. He looks a nice enough lad, but is clearly the centre of attention with the in crowd, which worries me a little.

My girl wants to go cycling with him on Saturday, which is absolutely fine. But she is only 13 and really does not need any more distractions in her life, least of all being associated with one of the most popular boys at school. I must tread carefully and not interfere unduly as that could be counter-productive.

Our girl talk was mercifully short and came to a swift conclusion when I suggested a Rubiks cube might be a nice present for his 15th birthday 🤣
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Ontheroad · M
I'm going to be rude and interject some dad talk... if you haven't already "had the talk", it is time, as in before she goes out bicycling with him.

If he is as popular as you say, he very likely feels pretty full of himself, and guys who feel that way will take liberties that can lead to unfortunate outcomes.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Ontheroad They'll be fine this afternoon, they're with other friends. Then I might get to meet the man of the moment later 🙂
Ontheroad · M
@SunshineGirl Okay, that sounds safe enough. It's just that I'm a guy who was a teen, who knows guy teens. Protect your daughter. Arm her with knowledge/information and guide her towards making good decisions. Don't trust teenage boys too much... even the good ones.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Ontheroad Thanks, it's all good advice. This is where they are headed today - not much chance of mischief up there! 😁