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Time for girl talk

So the moment of parenthood that I was dreading most of all came about yesterday evening 🥺 My daughter decided she needed a heart-to-heart talk about Will, a boy in the year above her at school whom she has managed to name-check in every other sentence she has uttered in the past fortnight 🙄

I'm recovering from flu, so wasn't in the most receptive frame of mind. My wife, who has been delegated all the tricky biological stuff, was working her shift 😭

I know next to nothing about teenage boys 🤷‍♀️ I have seen Will from a distance. He looks a nice enough lad, but is clearly the centre of attention with the in crowd, which worries me a little.

My girl wants to go cycling with him on Saturday, which is absolutely fine. But she is only 13 and really does not need any more distractions in her life, least of all being associated with one of the most popular boys at school. I must tread carefully and not interfere unduly as that could be counter-productive.

Our girl talk was mercifully short and came to a swift conclusion when I suggested a Rubiks cube might be a nice present for his 15th birthday 🤣
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SammyJo · 51-55, F
Hope it goes ok...just try to take it as an everyday kind of friendship. I agree about being wary of the popular kids - maybe that was 'cos I wasn't super popular myself, back in the day? - but it will be what it will be.

I have the same apprehensions over our youngest daughter. She'll be 10 in June and, thankfully (in some ways), she has her head and heart fully immersed in music and playing guitar at the moment.

But we never know what's gonna happen in the future..

🤔

SJD xx
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@SammyJo Bless her 💖 Mine lives for her gymnastics and dance. It takes something quite special for her to shuffle her weekend routine 🙂

We hope to meet him later today. I have to tread lightly. My eldest niece (16) has a longstanding friend who is a boy, but is definitely [i]not[/i] her boyfriend. She gets very annoyed at occasional teasing from adults and I quite understand why.