I Have Issues With My Mother In Law

My MIL has no fucking idea what "live within your means" is. 🙄

She spends hundreds of dollars a month on absolutely unnecessary bullshit (cigarettes, lottery tickets, cluttery shit from secondhand stores, dining out every fucking day, etc.) all the while, allowing her actual basic expenses to go unpaid. Then in the middle of the month she comes to ME (jobless with barely any income) for money because she already burned through hers. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

I can't fucking stand this woman. I will throw a fucking party when we finally get far away from her. 🎉🎈🎶🎈🎶🎈🎉💃🏻🕺

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quitwhendone · M

I don't know why you even let her bother you. Just tell her you have NO money to loan/give her. End of problem.

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quitwhendone · M

@DearAmbellina2113 Damn, she gets violent? Or really loud?

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@quitwhendone oh yeah!! She is a spoiled brat and throws tantrums and threatens, etc. Her husband allows it. Idk if he's just whipped or if he actually likes her that way.

quitwhendone · M

@DearAmbellina2113 Well, I am so sorry. My mother is a crazy-ass bitch too so I know the feeling. Do you pay any rent? Cuz if you do, take the money out of the rent you give her. Otherwise, you can pretend like you got a demotion ant work and you aren't making as much as you used to and can't give her any money anymore. Or tell her you suddenly had a bug expense you have to pay off....dental work or something.

nahright09 · 46-50, M

maybe it's time for her son to step up and say something.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@nahright09 he's tried, I've tried. She just blows up, gets defensive, runs to her husband who defends her, and spends the next few weeks doing whatever she can to make our lives a living hell.

nahright09 · 46-50, M

@DearAmbellina2113 offer support, if she doesn't take it tell her she can't be in your lives if she continues this way.

lost213 · 46-50, M

Sounds like my roommate... I finally cut him off until he pays me back.. which I’m sure will be never..

BlueRain · 51-55, F

What is a MIL?

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@BlueRain mother in law

HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M

Cut her off

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HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M

@DearAmbellina2113 cut her off.

She is a manipulative woman with a personality disorder.

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

@HoraceGreenley she definitely is. But we cant cut her off unless we want hell to pay later.

HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M

@DearAmbellina2113 That's the point. It's easier to pay her than face the consequences.

Cut her off and don't give in. It's the only way.

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