When thinking of adult relationships, is secks your primary goal?

If secks is your primary goal, does that de-value everything else that a fulfilling relationship should bring?

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Saage · F

I don't think "de-value" is the word I'd choose, but if someone's first priority in a relationship is sex, I would think they're not yet ready to settle down, or maybe even immature.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Saage Agree. This is why I think being both demi- and sapio-sexual as I am gives me a better rounded view of what relationships should be. To me secks is a thing, and a relationship should be comprised of many things, secks being just one aspect.

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

No.
I enjoy sex, but you don't need a relationship for just sex.
With relationships, I look for someone whose company I can stand for prolonged periods, and who will put up with my bs.

Ferise1 · 46-50, M

Yes it’s hard to have it all

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