Abandonment issues due to past

Scared to date again. What can i do?

I have fears such as, I feel next guy even if he might be good, he might not like me or break up with me.

or if the relationship fails....

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

You should not be afraid. Eventually people leave when they die.

I was afraid to loose her too and honestly I did loose her. It's like no way going back. But you don't know untill you look around. There are good men and atleast they can be great friends 🙂

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 make long terms friends.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@littlepuppywantanewlife too confused and scared to do that rn. I will think of it later....

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@sahi81 well then don't if you are scared.

iamBen · M

Why not learn to love yourself, just be you for a while and grow some confidence?

Bleak · 36-40, F

@iamBen Well said.

dale74 · M

I have the same feelings about females

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 yes, given ur past experiences it's natural to feel that way. I hope u can overcome such feelings !

dale74 · M

@sahi81 not that I wouldn't because I love to have a nice loving woman to comfort and I would love to have more kids

Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M

Just get to know people without commitment. No sex, no intimacy until you know them well.

Justafantasy · M

Life goes on either way. You can have a relationship or not. It's up to you, I'm not comfortable with the idea of a relationship again right now so I won't have one

DazzaTheHutt · M

Do what we did.

Get blind drunk and go on adventures.

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

Go to therapy.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@MrSmooTh can't afford it rn lol

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