My husband is drunk and passed out before 4pm

I can understand the desire to numb the pain, I can also understand your worry that he is going to spiral. Hope tomorrow is a better day for you both 💚. If anything he will regret it if this is how he spends the last of his time with you. Hopefully it’s just a temporary lapse.

I had no idea that your husband was dealing with this so badly. I have to say that I can't imagine being in either his or your shoes, but for the love of god I hope that he can pull himself together. I'm sure this isn't how he wants to spend the time that he has left with you. You should let him know that you need him to be there for you, and that you need him to prove to you that he can take care of everything once you're gone. I would be livid if I was you. I hope that you get to talk everything out, and have some quality time together.

He's entitled to be... I can't imagine the pain he's going through knowing what's happening to you... He's needing a moment, and probably feel like 😩 later too..

❤❤❤

A break is OK - as long as it's just a moment. He will need to be strong, not a small task. All you can do is remind him that you need his assurances that things will be OK. 🙏💪

Hoping he finds the strength to bounce back from this .. and you to forgive his mistake if he does. ♥

Reality just got realer, eh? He's obviously feeling the weight of the world on his shoulders but this isn't going to help. I imagine he's going to be embarrassed & headachy when he does come up.

Tough for you both plus the kids

I hope he doesn't fall into a bad pattern

Has he ever tried therapy

I hope he gets a hold on himself. 😤

How much alcohol do you have left in the house?

If necessary maybe pour it all down the drain

<3 <3 like for real ik how hard it is