My husband is drunk and passed out before 4pm

He doesn’t really drink much. Maybe once a year. His dad was an alcoholic and he is an addict in recovery although alcohol wasn’t his drug of choice.

I am irritated because I know he is doing this to avoid his feelings and and I am afraid he is in a dangerous mental state.

There is not much I can do at this point.

And yes kids are fine. There are plenty sober adults in the house.