So I guess my mom found out I’m on my last legs and wants to visit

I haven’t seen her in over five years. I’ve talked to her a couple times and changed my phone number after each.

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I would advise you to forego the "pleasure" of that visit. It will be negative, and you certainly don't need that poison in your mind right now.