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Who is in the wrong?

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Nah, you are too serious
Yea, your mum is kinda wrong for that
I dunno
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So for some context I 20f have made a friend for the first time in years. I made friends with B 20f last year and she’s has helped me through alot. We spend a lot of time together and we honestly are kinda like best friends. I call her mum and she calls me daughter.


Now her and her partner broke up at the beginning of the semester this year and she’s just going through a rough patch. I had been staying over hers a lot and to my mum that meant I was seeing someone.

Now obviously I’m not seeing anyone and I’d say that but my mum would get very angry and would sometimes scream saying how I’m lying and she doesn’t want to talk to me over it.

My mum has implied that I am sleeping around with my 16f sister. Now I find this really insulting.

Ive voiced to them that I don’t like it anymore and to please stop making these “jokes” because it’s been like 2 months non stop about how I’m sleeping around and seeing a 46yr old man who’s a gross deadbeat when there is nobody.


Am I being overly sensitive or is my mum a bit weird for keep making those sorts of jokes about her daughter?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
So if I follow this, your mom thinks you are having sex with your best friend, and your sister, and a middle aged man and keeps making jokes and/or screaming about it.

Uh, no you're not sensitive your mom is an awful person.
XunheardX · 22-25, F
@CountScrofula they think I’m having sex with an old man and I’m covering it up by saying I’m staying round my friends. Why they think this? I do not know
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I would say she's just teasing you except for the part about sleeping around with your sister. That sounds deeply weird.
If it's possible, when she starts, just leave the room. Don't react - just leave.

You're not wrong.
Carebear2992 · 31-35, F
Well if you are grown then it's really none of her business what you're doing but sounds to me like she is just a concerned mother and trust me that can be overbearing but at least she cares about you
black4white · 56-60, M
so this is confusing and gonna give it a shot.

If you are not in a relationship then who has the right to say who you are sleeping with?
She is suffering from some kind of delusions it sounds like. I had someone accuse me of the same thing but they had a mental illness.
Is mom a narcissist???

It sounds like she's doing this for a reaction to me... don't engage with it and just walk away.
SW-User
Yes, these aren't funny jokes, they are invasive and unpleasant comments which serve no useful purpose.

 
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