Have you got to the 'never again' point yet? I was married twice, thought the first one was just a 'gold digger' but in fairness to her, she had never had anything in her life, had an abusive childhood and a lot of other traumas, so when she instigated a divorce and a solicitor says to her, 'you know you could get money out of this too...' the temptation would've been too much. The second one however different kettle of fish.