I can't believe Zack asked for a divorce

The last few days I been a emotional rack. I really don't know why he is asking for a divorce. We haven't been arguing and nothing has happen besides the lost of my pregnancy last month. U would think he would stick around after something like that happened. I'm not really mad just confused why would he want a divorce

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Sounds like a really awful combo of circumstances. Is your husband perhaps annoyed that he can't be the father he wants to be and for some reason 'blames' you for what occured?

I thought people got married 'for better or worse'?

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@zonavar68 I am sure he does blame me for it.

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Sorry for you and for your loss.
You certainly don’t deserve this
But he has shown he is not worthy of you !

YOU are strong and will survive

Oneofthestormboys · 56-60, M

That’s bloody awful. I’m really sorry you’re having to deal with all this at once.
Wishing you the very very best during what must surely be a tough time for you x

swirlie · 31-35

I've heard of guys doing that before, following a miscarriage in the family. Usually, asking for a divorce over something like that is a man's way of internalizing the pregnancy loss he feels himself. If I were you I'd just ignore what he says and eventually he'll come to terms with it all himself.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@swirlie I've been an emotional wreck over it. He nothing said anything to me about it

swirlie · 31-35

@smileylovesgaming
Some men are not particularly aware. Maybe your husband thinks that you chose to miscarry yourself? If he thinks that, then he may be mad at you for having a miscarriage without including him in that decision. I'm serious.