Overwhelming

Being alone and taking care of the kids, is a terrible affair , I am knowing.

I am sorry to hear that !
You will get organized and that will help
How old are your children ?

Divorce is never easy. Sounds like you are doing great and just keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Extremely strong woman. Now you just need a bit of time to yourself every day, like an hour or two of you time.

Tough on you and the kids sorry you are going through it

Hard one... Don't try to be everything for everyone.. You'll fail!

You only have do much to give... Be honest with the kids, they'll understand eventually...

Honestly it will be tough to adjust at first but it might be mean me saying this but being alone for a while it will be the best thing for you after such a long relationship and I’m speaking from experience

You already are a great mom, let your kids take some of the load. If anything it teaches thrm lufe skills. Laundry, dishes, cleaning, dinners, etc....

I'm just trying to get through a week of being a stay at home dad. Day 1 survived, brought them home and their mom put them to bed as I ran away for an hour or 2

It’s actually really easy. When you’re young, your expectations are crazy. When you’re middle aged, you know what you want and there’s no reason not to be frank about it.

Dating apps can be tricky, but they do allow you to cull through a list of potential dates rather easily. Just jump in and have fun when you’re ready.

Don’t focus too much on the past. Just plan a great future without the mistakes of the past. Freedom is a wonderful thing while you’re seeking companionship!

Seems like you’re doing a great job 👏

Work out your marriage issues for your kids. Imagine the impact it would have on them.
There's no problem that can't be solved in a relationship if both agree to sit and talk.

From what I've seen watching other's and not going through it myself (yet) sometimes go be one of the kids if it's an open activity that includes exercise. Gives you something to bond with your kids over at the same time that might help them be your friends in the future.

I seems daunting, but it will be fine and you will get through it. Juggling work, all your children's activities. All while trying to get to the gym, all works out. Hopefully your ex is involved and takes some of the children's responsibilities off your shoulders. I was lucky that way.

This too will pass

Pray More

I could not marry. Never had a nice career to "fall back" on when the inevitible failure came down

NEVER WENT THERE AND NO KIDS TOO

and still cant see straight for all the hard times nonetheless

so I feel for u

🍷🍷🍷 and more 🍷 😀

This is where you need to work on. Don't try to be a great mom and try to manage things for your children. Be like an older sibling and friend to your children.

Separation is never easy.

For a.working mom like u it will more tough initially but soon you will be rock it🫶

Divorced here. I get it.