She can't make things easy

When she told me she need time apart i didn't fight her. I packed a bag and left. Well I packed all summer clothes and its getting cold. I asked her if i could come into our house and just get a more clothes. She told me she'd let me know when it was a good time. Since i left she won't even let me into the house. I am trying to be understanding but come on. I need my clothes.