She can't make things easy

When she told me she need time apart i didn't fight her. I packed a bag and left. Well I packed all summer clothes and its getting cold. I asked her if i could come into our house and just get a more clothes. She told me she'd let me know when it was a good time. Since i left she won't even let me into the house. I am trying to be understanding but come on. I need my clothes.

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NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F

You need to hire an attorney asap. Protect yourself, so you don’t end up getting blind sided

Cigarguy101 · M

@NewBeginnings7790 I am getting one. But as you know they aren't cheap.

NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F

@Cigarguy101 yeah I do know. Just don’t want to see you get taken advantage of just because you allowed her time and space.

It could very well be used against you now since you are not occupying the residence. Calling the police likely won’t help either. I hope that won’t happen but but her not giving you something as simple as your clothes is pretty fucked up.

Cigarguy101 · M

@NewBeginnings7790
Ugh this isn't what i want at all. I need to be home with my family!!

Anyway i dropped the kids off and i told her i needed some things. She tried to stop me but my son said mom im tired of dad wearing the same shirts everyday and he got cold tonight. She looked at me then let me in. Yeah i put him up to it. Crumble cookies for this weekend lol.

NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F

@Cigarguy101 I’m sorry you’re going through this, I’m a big believer in fighting for what you want and believe in. Maybe she’s hurt, maybe she needs something more. But if you love her, fight for her. Ask her what her needs are, and if and how you can put things back together.