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So I woke up the other morning and my daughter was gone

Apparently she met a guy from a dating app and hung out at his house. I think I'm going to have a stroke soon, things are not going good lately.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Dude, I am TERRIFIED for my kiddos to be older and able to make own choices (just because of shit like that)

Thankfully everything is ok, but not the best idea to just go to a persons house until you get to know them. There are crazy people out there 😔
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@WaryWitchWandering I know, the anxiety gets worse when you have less control over their livelihood, honestly
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@MyNameIsHurl I believe it
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Hey big deep breaths. She has grown and you know these things are going to happen. Being the father of a daughter, I`ve gone through this and it wasn`t easy.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@Degbeme that's so dangerous ☹️
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@MyNameIsHurl I know it is. Why do you think I have so much grey hair. 😩
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@Degbeme I get it 🫤
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Yeah kinda like degbeme said, you shouldn't get a stroke over this, there's almost nothing you can do about it, so spare your energy for the things you can do something about. I was a rebellious teen once, not a daughter but still 😤
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst I will 😄
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst I mean, I used to hang out at with gang bangers so I can imagine how my parents felt 😬
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@MyNameIsHurl this is my reaction to that comment, although mine was a bit more expressive
SW-User
I mean you must be an understanding parent if she told you who she was with later, i could never tell my parents anything about a guy lmao
goliathtree · 56-60, M
at least she is talking to you and telling you after the fact. She should have had the respect to let you know though. My kids went down dark paths and I was somewhat oblivious to it until it was too late.

You can't control what she does as an adult, but if she is living under your roof, you should be able to set some ground rules for at the very least communication.

But then, what the hell do I know? Most days I wish I just would have stuck to dogs rather than kids. (not really, but you get the idea)
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
And she didn't let you know beforehand???
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@SubstantialKick no, I would have freaked out.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
@MyNameIsHurl I probably would have too, to be honest.
pdockal · 56-60, M
How old is daughter
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
pdockal · 56-60, M
@MyNameIsHurl
She's an adult but if she's living under your roof you need to set up some rules for her to follow
we are like our parents.. look who taught us.. i was a bad boy and so was dad.. sorry about your hard time. just talk to her like a person. or how you would like to be talked to.. mark
Oops, it doesn't sound like a responsible decision on her part.
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Sepia · 36-40, F
Trace her phone location.. I hope she is safe.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Put some tracking chip in her!
Ud hate to be my parent lol
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Oh, no! Is she still there? Did she come home?
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 yeah she came home and then told me where she was
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@MyNameIsHurl {facetious\Oh. That's reassuring\facetious}
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 not really
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
How old is she?
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@MyNameIsHurl Just think back to when your were 20
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@Justenjoyit I was hanging with my ex, he wouldn't let me misbehave
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@MyNameIsHurl I was living in another country at that age, she will be ok but kids will always be a worry no matter their age.
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
I’m sure she’s fine.
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MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
@Darksideinthenight2 I'm gonna run away
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