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Which is worse in a relationship to be misunderstood or unappreciated ?

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Gibbon · 70-79, M
Their both kinda equal tough to choose
Nimbus · M
@Gibbon Exactly! :)
Iwillwait · M
Both are hard to be, unappreciated would be worse.
Nimbus · M
@Iwillwait Possibly, it's very difficult to know for sure 👍
GoFish ·
those are mild vs some other ails
GoFish ·
@Nimbus unpleasant non the less but maybe they are unassertive?
Nimbus · M
@GoFish That's a possibility!
GoFish ·
@Nimbus yeah they seem resigned instead of gung-ho
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
It's not fun to be misunderstood but everyone is going to be misunderstood from time to time being unappreciated hurts I think more at least for me
Nimbus · M
@Justmeraeagain I tend to agree 👍
lissah · 36-40, F
I guess unappreciated. I get misunderstood a lot. Everytime i say i have something to tell you. He goes immediately to what did you do this time.
Nimbus · M
@lissah I'm sorry to hear that.
I hope things improve for you 👍
BlueVeins · 26-30
Being unappreciated is discouraging. Being misunderstood is Hell.
Nimbus · M
@BlueVeins Yep, food for thought there 👍
4meAndyou · F
🤯🤯🤯


Heads you win, tails you lose.
Nimbus · M
@4meAndyou Yea, can work that way too :)
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I think being misunderstood can be addressed more easily than being unappreciated.
Nimbus · M
@DrWatson Excellent point 👍
Adogslife · 61-69, M
If you’re unappreciated, you really don’t have a relationship. I’d consider that far worse.
Bleak · 36-40, F
Where understanding fails, appreciation struggles to exist.
Nimbus · M
@Bleak Succinct and correct 👍
Bleak · 36-40, F
@Nimbus Thankyou.
AbbeyRhode · F
I feel being unappreciated is worse. One can be deeply loved but accidentally misunderstood, and usually that is easily remedied with communication.
But when one is unappreciated, it means they are being taken for granted, and that hurts.
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode Good point! 👍
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Why can't people use their grown up words and communicate. It's like they're possessed in the Twilight Zone.
Nimbus · M
@FloorGenAdm I blame Adam & Eve ;)
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
@Nimbus Not that catalog you get in the mail...you mean the original right?
Nimbus · M
@FloorGenAdm Correct.
Nimbus · M
@QuietReverie OK 👍

 
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