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I am having some issues with a renter who is sharing a house with my father and I. We get into these blow outs because she feels she is perfect and never makes mistakes and I catch the brunt of it because she doesn't like me. I am an adult and treats and treats me like a child. Always threatening to go to the police if I don't shape up. Just petty stuff like that to try and get under my skin. Unfortunately I can't evict her due to not being the homeowner. Yet I don't know what to do for this to stop and for her to shut up.Not only that she interrupts me when I talk have also considered moving out myself but my father needs me because I am his caregiver since my mother died. I do most of the cleaning and cooking. She doesn't know how to do any of that. Maybe by venting my frustrations I can get a new perspective. Any way thanks in advance
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Coralmist · 41-45, F
I wonder if you could write her an email, or a personal message and leave it on or under her bedroom door. Saying you really wish things could calm down for everyone's sake, and that maybe we can make just a couple house rules...no berating one another, and if someone accidentally makes a mistake or some minor conflict pop up, we agree to apologize if needed or have a quick, calm talk about how to go forward. Say " my dad is getting older and I just want some calm in the home. "
This is just an idea though.
urbancowboy · 56-60, M
@Coralmist Thank you for your help. She is very hard headed and she isn't good about reading anything of reason. I also have sent texts but she deletes those I might have to get in touch with a female on her level and she can intervene. Thank you so much my friend 🫂🌹
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@urbancowboy I hope you can find out a way to some resolution...😧🫂
urbancowboy · 56-60, M
@Coralmist Me too. Good advice and well heeded 😊