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Secondary School - Year 7 Onwards.

Our daughter started 'Big School' this week.

Exciting for her, scary for me. Even though I am a teacher it hits home more when your child had a new and dramatic turn in their lives.

Both myself and my other 'arf had varying degrees of nerves, but she has a friend who's a year older that looked after her at school, plus her old school friends that have started with her.

We'd planned before of course, asking if she wanted a lift to school - as we always used to do - or show her where the bus is from (number/time etc) if she wanted to get on that. But, no, she's wanting to walk to school. It's not super far but far enough.

1st day? Nerves. Upset stomach (from her), but she went. Came back home, she's gushing with stories and how nice the teachers were, as some of the other kids. That's nice.

Lots of energy. Hyper excited.

The next day? Shattered! Poor girl is tired out!

We all survived. She's enjoyed it. Plus, she's learning about herself a little more.

Case in point; she loves music. Not so much your 'car...far..' kinds of music, but the more complex stuff. Think Frank Zappa/Steve Vai. She plays guitar. She teaches adults to play guitar.

So, she thinks a certain way.

The school has limited equipment and also - obviously - children have different skill sets, ranging from no idea of music to well versed, so hearing some of their 'practicing' making noise has been hard for her.

She does understand - now she does - that not everyone is like her, or even like her own students that want to learn. Some just want to muck about. She's just getting that. Think it'll be a big learning curve for her.

But, in the main, she's enjoying the different lessons and subjects she's heard about so far.

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
It's a whole other world isn't it ?
Forget the whole 'hope they cope' thing.
I think many of us old-uns have vivid horror stories of our own that have left their scars on our psyche. Even to this day !

But it sounds like she's figuring things out.
KarenDuponteDurose · 51-55, F
@Picklebobble2 Hope maybe a little autistic in the whole commitment/blinkered to everything but music....and we try to make her well rounded.

We shall see. Early days.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
It sounds like she's learned a valuable lesson in empathy already.

I'm glad the first week went so well for her 🤗
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@KarenDuponteDurose Are there any other subjects she is particularly enjoying?
KarenDuponteDurose · 51-55, F
@SunshineGirl She's always loved books. We're big readers in our household. Both my wife and her have a big love of sci fi, so creative writing is also something she loves to do.

Music, of course. It's just the first week so she's learning about the basics of languages, history and geography etc. We'll see what sticks.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@KarenDuponteDurose A reading habit is a great personal strength . . everything else will follow from this.
dale74 · M
I know what you mean.Mine moved school buildings she is now in junior high and she's only freaking 11. If everyone else is twelve and thirteen
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
ElizabethConnor · 41-45, F
Sounds like she will do well and knows her own mind. Best of luck
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
Think you've got a very creative,possibly future STAR in the making in both your hands there ❤❤❤

 
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