I have a poll!

Honestly, I can’t remember them saying that just because. If I was dressed up for an event, they might say "you look really nice", but not beyond that. I don’t know that my mother thought I was pretty—ironically because I look like her. And she saw herself as "plain". 🥺

They hardly ever did, but I am glad they didn't put value on my looks. They were great parents with the tools they had.

Never. My parents were always looking for a reason to punish but I don't recall ever a kind word or a pat on the back. The only time they ever touched me was to hit me. I still have a big problem with people touching me.

My biological parents? Never I was “mistake” or the “wrong twin” I was a twin but my twin was stillborn

Every now and then. My mom mostly. She often says I’m cute 😅 My dad it’s more like “nice haircut”, but I’ll take that too.

Never 🤷🏻‍♀

Never

Don’t recall hearing it. Probably a generation thing

My mom said it all the time but she was wrong

They might have, but I don`t remember.

Not once, they always told me that it should of been me that got killed instead of my sister

They talked more about intelligence. To them, it was important to be intelligent.

My mom sometimes would tell me that

who else expected the pillar champion was 'never'?