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Let's take the toxic family test

How bad was it for you?

I got a 28. Lil bit of toxicity but manageable.

Edit: Genuine trigger warning. If talking childhood trauma is hard for you, give it a skip.

https://patrickteahantherapy.webflow.io/toxic-family-test
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71 homie.

I got my sister to do it and she got 59 which surprised me. Part of answering the questions is reflecting on your norm as abusive, not everyone has the same definitions yet.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@HijabaDabbaDoo Right you need the tools to talk about if something hurts in the first place
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
27. I have been, and still am, fortunate to have not just a loving family (most are, even if dysfunctional), but one that knows how to express that love, Not perfect in every way, though.
Mine was 36, which I suspect was largely because of the times. My parents also evolved and I was part of their learning curve as the first child.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F

Yikes I didn't think it was that bad 😬
itsok · 31-35, F
That was a tough one. 85
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itsok · 31-35, F
@CountScrofula 17 years of therapy 😅
Have you ever had to take the ACE test?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@itsok I have not but @Notladylike was just talking about it. Sounds uh, heavy
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Pretty high. Yet I expected that since mom was an alcoholic. Plus some other things happened.


Tell me is it normal for either parent or other much older siblings, to send a 14 year old to Germany, by themselves, not even speaking the language?

And leave the 14 year old there, for over a week with relatives, none of which they met before, nor who spoke English, nor knew you were coming? 🤷🏻‍♂

Please note drinking beer was a normal thing for 14 year olds in 1973 Germany. And yes that was the first time I ever got drunk.

That's just one incident that I'm comfortable talking about.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
idk i think others had it a lot worse
I got a 41. Apparently a moderate amount of effed up.
94 out of 100.
But a family without social support from community and the state is bound to be used by and for the strongest and most toxic people.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
This explains a lot.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@CountScrofula I didn’t have good people in my life growing up.
BobbyMoeven · 51-55, M
I got a 44 ,,, moderate toxicity.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
63 - This is weird.
buriedalive · 46-50, M

Not too bad considering I grew up in a messed up place during a messed up time
Isaabella · 26-30, F
I got 48 😅
I got an 83. I didn't need a test to tell me this though. 😅
being · 36-40, F
That's a long thing! I might take sometime tomorrow... Reached till no7 and got me miserable already
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@being Yeah protect yourself it's just a quiz
being · 36-40, F
@CountScrofula oh yes 😁 it's too late right now for me..
yeah my score would prob be a 100.. don’t need to take a test to know that lol
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Are you volunteering for the aftercare?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
itsok · 31-35, F
@Notladylike hey would you feel comfortable saying your ACE results?
@itsok Sure I’ll PM you
Selah ·
What does it mean if I got bored and quit 😭
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Like I remember.. 😅 Idk, the shit that is happening in my adulthood is much worse than anything I remember from childhood. I really don't know how to answer those questions because the experience from the past 10 years overshadows everything that was before.
SaorUladh · 26-30, M
43. That's not all that bad, I suppose. It makes sense.
ha! loooooser! I scored a 63. which isn't great, but at least I passed!

just a second, I'm being handed a memo....
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gdsm.
🤪🤪🤪🤪
MethDozer · M
41. Low end of moderate.


I think that's the golden middle to be honest
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@Notladylike The guy who sent this to me had a 77! But uh... yeah.
@CountScrofula the guy who sent it to you? Also 77 is still not 80
BlueVeins · 22-25
@CountScrofula @Notladylike 77 factorial is way more than 80.
If they still breathing
They toxic
GuidanceCounselor · 56-60, M
Trolling for customers. Very negative and biased questions.
82
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CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@BlueVeins You and I are the only people on this site who grew up in safe homes looks like, Jesus.
@CountScrofula You do realise SW is just a subset of the actual population. The vast majority of people especially women will score highly. Consider yourself lucky. 1/3 children have experienced some form of significant abuse.
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@KingPierus I didn't think I was that bad off till I got them results. But them questions are kinda geared to point out dysfunctional

 
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