Let's take the toxic family test

71 homie.

I got my sister to do it and she got 59 which surprised me. Part of answering the questions is reflecting on your norm as abusive, not everyone has the same definitions yet.

27. I have been, and still am, fortunate to have not just a loving family (most are, even if dysfunctional), but one that knows how to express that love, Not perfect in every way, though.

Mine was 36, which I suspect was largely because of the times. My parents also evolved and I was part of their learning curve as the first child.

Yikes I didn't think it was that bad 😬

That was a tough one. 85

Pretty high. Yet I expected that since mom was an alcoholic. Plus some other things happened.


Tell me is it normal for either parent or other much older siblings, to send a 14 year old to Germany, by themselves, not even speaking the language?

And leave the 14 year old there, for over a week with relatives, none of which they met before, nor who spoke English, nor knew you were coming? 🤷🏻‍♂

Please note drinking beer was a normal thing for 14 year olds in 1973 Germany. And yes that was the first time I ever got drunk.

That's just one incident that I'm comfortable talking about.

idk i think others had it a lot worse

I got a 41. Apparently a moderate amount of effed up.

94 out of 100.
But a family without social support from community and the state is bound to be used by and for the strongest and most toxic people.

This explains a lot.

I got a 44 ,,, moderate toxicity.

63 - This is weird.

I got 66

Not too bad considering I grew up in a messed up place during a messed up time

I got 48 😅

I got an 83. I didn't need a test to tell me this though. 😅

That's a long thing! I might take sometime tomorrow... Reached till no7 and got me miserable already

yeah my score would prob be a 100.. don’t need to take a test to know that lol

Are you volunteering for the aftercare?

What does it mean if I got bored and quit 😭

Like I remember.. 😅 Idk, the shit that is happening in my adulthood is much worse than anything I remember from childhood. I really don't know how to answer those questions because the experience from the past 10 years overshadows everything that was before.

43. That's not all that bad, I suppose. It makes sense.

ha! loooooser! I scored a 63. which isn't great, but at least I passed!

just a second, I'm being handed a memo....
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gdsm.
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87 damn 😔

41. Low end of moderate.


I think that's the golden middle to be honest

If they still breathing
They toxic

Trolling for customers. Very negative and biased questions.

82

94!!!!

75

87