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I’m honestly confused why parents and seemingly every adult feels that need to squat when hugging their child?

Why is it that When a toddler, or older child like 7 years old gives an adult a hug, the grown-up always squats? Even when standing your child can easily hug you, so you can easily return their hug. What does squatting have to do with any aspect of a hug? For any parents that have kids in this age range like me, when they give you a hug,
I have two daughters, Hanah who is 7 and Rylee who is 4. I can hug both Hanah and Rylee when I’m standing, and they can give me a hug back.

just stay standing for both kids. See? both of them are hugging, or going in for the hug, alongside the adult just fine. Why wouldn’t you do this with both toddler and 7 year old? Why do grown-ups squat every time?

a few examples of what I’m talking about, imagine in these photos they are giving each other a hug.

https://c8.alamy.com/comp/C79GB4/first-day-of-school-ossona-lombardy-italy-C79GB4.jpg

https://c8.alamy.com/comp/JBY2FW/portrait-of-happy-young-mother-meeting-her-daughter-after-in-school-JBY2FW.jp
invisiblewoman · 36-40, F
Omg who cares
Vin53 · M
Because now you're both at the same level and can see eye to eye I'd reckon.
Askawaytoday · 41-45, F
@Vin53 did you look at the photos? I use those as examples because they are both hugging each other, and they’re both able to see each other‘s eyes. Me and my two hug all the time and I can stand. I’m just not really understanding why it seems like all of the adults feel like they have to squat
To some kids it may feel like the adult is meeting them on their level and is more approachable.
Teslin · M
For a hug from my grandson, I would gladly bend down !!
For anyone who wants to ponder a bit further about this user’s intentions.

https://similarworlds.com/family/5192893-Do-you-hold-your-childrens-hand-by-wrapping-their-hand-in
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@OlderSometimesWiser Yes this person should be reported. I mistakenly answered one question before realizing that it was a fetish weirdo.
If this person is not up to no good I would be surprised
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
It's a very powerful thing for adults to interact with children literally 'on the same level' for emotional interchanges. When helping a distressed child the very worst thing an adult can do is *not* go down to their level.
Bumbles · 51-55, M
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
It seems you asked this question several weeks back. Still not getting the answer you want???
Because no kid really wants to hug with your crotch at eye level...
Askawaytoday · 41-45, F
@HootyTheNightOwl but look in the photos. In those two links. Each kid is wrapping their arms around the adult and vice versa. That’s what I’m not understanding. Because even if your kid is a toddler, or seven years old just like my two, it seems like every adult feels that they have to squat. But as you see in those two pictures it’s not really necessary
@Askawaytoday I'm not putting in extra effort to visit links to view pictures that you could and should have added to your post if you felt that it adds more weight to your argument somehow.

I'm actually starting to wonder if you could be a pedo myself, given that you are putting so much time and effort into telling everyone who explains why adults squat down to the child's level that they are wrong??? This is a common tactic used by pedophiles to try to justify why they abuse others.
iamBen · 61-69, M
Looking them in the eye at their level is comforting because it's less intimidating. It indicates seeing things from their perspective. It diminishes the intimidating nature of the adult being much larger and more powerful. Being obviously much smaller can be frightening ing for anyone, especially children.
Sylphrena · 31-35
How short are you/how tall are your kids?
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Heart to heart is best, wrap your arms around them and squeeze gently. If you don't squat they end up hugging your leg, that isn't a hug.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Why does it bother you so much how other parents hug their offspring/s?
Patriot96 · 56-60, C
Its a courtesy so they arent always looking up.
I do the same for people in wheel chairs
Gibbon · 70-79, M
OMG You're mind works in strange questionable ways.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Getting down on a child's level is an important action in letting them know they are seen,heard and that they matter.
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
My dad never hugged me or told me he loved me.
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