my dads wife wants me to visit in spring but i feel weird about it

like i wasnt welcome in my own house after she moved in so i dont know how anyone expects me to feel welcome in hers. id come home after school to talk to my dad about this or that and she'd make me leave 😐

but i also really want to have a good relationship with my dad so maybe i should just deal with the discomfort

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deadgerbil · 26-30

Talk to your dad about how she made you feel so he knows and doesn't wonder why you feel standoffish

Intuitive · F

He needs to be the one to make sure you feel comfortable and safe. I feel sad for you because this is not right.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Maybe they've been talking and this is an olive branch.
Interesting that it should come from her don't you think ?

Make the effort and see what happens.

HannahSky · F

Talk to your dad about it and decide what you want to do. You don't want to not see him because of someone else.

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Do what the rest of us do — smile and nod until it's blissfully over.

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