How is your relation with your dad? we not hostile but quite awkward with close to zero interaction
Living with my dad has always been an interesting experience, especially when it comes to his unique approach to organizing his belongings. To say his system is chaotic would be an understatement. He has this uncanny habit of keeping everything—valuable items, broken gadgets, sentimental keepsakes, and completely useless junk—all jumbled together in multiple random spots around the house.
It’s not just the clutter that’s challenging; it’s the drama that comes with it. On more occasions than I can count, he’s accused someone—usually me or another family member—of throwing away something he “desperately” needs. But here’s the kicker: his missing items are almost never actually lost. They’re just buried somewhere deep in the labyrinth of his disorganized hoard.
Trying to find anything in his chaotic stash feels like going on a treasure hunt where the map is constantly changing. And when the rare moment comes where wedofind the “missing” item, he often shrugs it off, as if the hours of searching were no big deal.
Here is the thing,as vengefull teenage im so furious and enough with his scapegoat everyone of throwing his beloging behavior.When i found out the he had the only one piece of original spare key to his beloved e34 five series that comes with user manual that store within one of his disorganise hard drawer i purposely stole it and knowing it cost a fortune to duplicate one if he lost the only one other existing key he use to daily drive the car and he does lost it.
Fast forward month or year later he lost the key and spend god know how much he spend to replace entire ignition and all 4 door eith trunk lock system because from i heard dealer quote for cost duplicate without original key as template is way more expensive and im happy to cause him break a hole in wallet.So bad later he found that spare key i hidden in my bedroom,from then on he assume all the years the accusation is true all his belonging does not disappear on his false,it is all i the one throw away but im already have no credit justify my innocense because one stupid big mistake i done.
Till now is almost 20 years later,this misunderstanding gap between us is remain.Im not bother to put effort to make relation better.
Im already move out to live in my own,only visit parent occationly.But usually with him and mom presence im only chat with mom.
It’s not just the clutter that’s challenging; it’s the drama that comes with it. On more occasions than I can count, he’s accused someone—usually me or another family member—of throwing away something he “desperately” needs. But here’s the kicker: his missing items are almost never actually lost. They’re just buried somewhere deep in the labyrinth of his disorganized hoard.
Trying to find anything in his chaotic stash feels like going on a treasure hunt where the map is constantly changing. And when the rare moment comes where wedofind the “missing” item, he often shrugs it off, as if the hours of searching were no big deal.
Here is the thing,as vengefull teenage im so furious and enough with his scapegoat everyone of throwing his beloging behavior.When i found out the he had the only one piece of original spare key to his beloved e34 five series that comes with user manual that store within one of his disorganise hard drawer i purposely stole it and knowing it cost a fortune to duplicate one if he lost the only one other existing key he use to daily drive the car and he does lost it.
Fast forward month or year later he lost the key and spend god know how much he spend to replace entire ignition and all 4 door eith trunk lock system because from i heard dealer quote for cost duplicate without original key as template is way more expensive and im happy to cause him break a hole in wallet.So bad later he found that spare key i hidden in my bedroom,from then on he assume all the years the accusation is true all his belonging does not disappear on his false,it is all i the one throw away but im already have no credit justify my innocense because one stupid big mistake i done.
Till now is almost 20 years later,this misunderstanding gap between us is remain.Im not bother to put effort to make relation better.
Im already move out to live in my own,only visit parent occationly.But usually with him and mom presence im only chat with mom.
26-30, M
