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Picklebobble2 What you are being shown are all the signs of 'how it really is', though most of the time we slip into a mild state of denial to ignore those signs because we don't want our situation to be that way in our daily reality. But it is that way!
We are not normally shown any signs at all until the time is perfectly right for us to actually do anything with the information that those signs are providing for us, which means we cannot act on anything like you're situation describes, until those signs have presented themselves to us.
You have confirmed receipt of those signs already and if you choose to do nothing, more signs will appear in the future which will then cause things to come to an abrupt head, to the point where things are said and things are done that sometimes we regret later.
The secret is to act early and to act covertly when those signs first present themselves so that those behind the main issue are very discretely sidelined without actually realizing they've been sidelined, just so that you can do your job as primary caregiver without interference from the peanut gallery.
