I feel stuck

@RedGrizzly both yes and no. I live with my step father and mom and so it’s a blended family. So my step siblings kind of are more privileged and are often treated with more lenience than me. My biological siblings are and always have been kind to me. But yes most of my step siblings are consistently unkind.

@tylerdurden024 oh okay, I see what's going on here. It's the, "My man over my children." In regards to your mom, and of course step siblings see you as being outside the family since y'all ain't blood related. I'm sorry you're going through all of that. I really am. 🩵

@RedGrizzly Yes exactly. I often feel very misunderstood about my situation so thank you for understanding and having sympathy ♡ It means more than you know when you live in a household like mine

@tylerdurden024 you're welcome. I just speak through experience. My family isn't blended, but they don't respect me enough to listen to what I have to say about ANYTHING. I can't change that, life is too short. So, I go about my day and try building a life for myself without looking for their validation. Not saying it doesn't hurt though, but you gotta live your life regardless. 🤗

@RedGrizzly you’re very insightful :)
I gotta push through at least one more year living with my parents before I can have my own life. A small part of me is thankful because I feel that the experiences they’ve all put me through have made me more mature. I’m not a typical “bright side” person, but I try my best. You’re an encouragement. Thank you 🫂

@tylerdurden024 Absolutely! It took me a while to learn this, but life circumstances like that make us tougher and wise. We're not the kind of people to fold under pressure, uncomfortable situations, hardships because going through things at a younger age than later in adulthood is like conditioning. As a result, you'll end up more resilient to any sort of conflict in life. So, you may not be a "bright side" type of person, but regardless you're still going to persevere through this and come out a warrior.

You need this struggle, unfortunately, life gets a little harder when you leave the nest. It may even seem unforgiving at times. Not to discourage you, but give yourself some time to prepare before dipping like working while you're still under their roof. Take advantage of them! Budget, save up as much as you can, look at vehicles, a handgun (you can't be too careful as a woman on your own. Rather have one and not need it), and apartments. See what you can afford. It's a process but you're hardy enough to go through it. 😄

I mean, working and having a vehicle alone would drastically change your circumstance! You wouldn't have to be at the house too much and get a break from the b.s.! Also, if you wanted to go have a day out to relax you can! It'll definitely make home life more tolerable.So, it's a lot to think about but change is coming soon, be excited for your future! 😁🤗

@RedGrizzly wow I can’t thank you enough. Living under this roof for 17 years has been no piece of cake so any kind words are encouraging. I’m working on getting my drivers license and already have a job set up for the school year. I hope to get my license to carry asap too. I have a plan for once I get out, but really it means so much to me that someone, anyone, took the time to encourage me and be real with me❤️ I hope you reap many blessings of kindness in return. Thank you!

@tylerdurden024 You're welcome! Hang in there! You're definitely on the right track! 💪😉