I said horrible things because I was pissed

I spoke ill of my mother last night with a sibling of mine she was being rude to me yesterday and I took it personal I just felt attack then I just said some things I didn't mean she found out that I was saying those things she will never forgive me I guess she has disowned me I feel really bad I didn't mean to say that about her I was just really mad. Any advice on what I can do?

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Wait till things calm down and apologize for your part in it.
there's no need to over explain or to bring anything back up again.
this doesn't mean you accept things she did or said you don't agree with, it only means you're taking responsibility for your part in the misunderstanding.

I have a large family that seems to get into many arguments like this and eventually everybody forgives each other.

Pinkystar · 31-35, F

@Justmeraeagain That's true I felt wrongly accused she was saying mean things about me I took them personally and I snapped.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Pinkystar if people are mean to you it's easy to snap back.

Pinkystar · 31-35, F

@Justmeraeagain yes, that's true.

SJones48 · 41-45, M

Wait till things calm down then try to talk to her when you’re all calm

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

Ask for apology.... again and again and try to make her understand that u didn't mean it , whatever you said when u got mad....

Adogslife · 61-69, M

You should think a bit before you react you could also make it easier on us if you used punctuation otherwise it just looks like one big run on sentence.

Pinkystar · 31-35, F

@Adogslife Maybe wear your eyeglasses next time grandpa everyone else was able to read it.

Tobasco · 31-35, F

Does this happen regularly, or is this the first time?

Pinkystar · 31-35, F

@Tobasco There's been a lot of arguments lately between them I think she just wanted to take it out on me.

mindlessdrifter · M

Mindfulness exercises work for me

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