I said horrible things because I was pissed

I spoke ill of my mother last night with a sibling of mine she was being rude to me yesterday and I took it personal I just felt attack then I just said some things I didn't mean she found out that I was saying those things she will never forgive me I guess she has disowned me I feel really bad I didn't mean to say that about her I was just really mad. Any advice on what I can do?

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Wait till things calm down and apologize for your part in it.
there's no need to over explain or to bring anything back up again.
this doesn't mean you accept things she did or said you don't agree with, it only means you're taking responsibility for your part in the misunderstanding.

I have a large family that seems to get into many arguments like this and eventually everybody forgives each other.

disturbedchicken · 31-35, F

@Justmeraeagain That's true I felt wrongly accused she was saying mean things about me I took them personally and I snapped.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@disturbedchicken if people are mean to you it's easy to snap back.

disturbedchicken · 31-35, F

@Justmeraeagain yes, that's true.