No. I have no desire to be with someone who doesn't love me enough to give me honesty, consideration, and respect.

Nah, it wouldn't have worked in the ling term in any case.

[@nedkelly ] i am being open with you on this one no joking on my part it was forty years ago i met this girl at work and she worked in the canteen it was i think the first time i ever felt something for a girl . i plucked up the courage finally too ask her out only too find out she had a boy friend it broke my heart

Oh heavens no but a little irritated at the one that won't go away 😒

Every day

I don't have any former lovers. Lynn says she is happy hers are all "former" lovers.

Think both of us realized it a few years later after we were married to someone else

Yes, big time.