I just don't get it

Why does a death in the family all was brings out the worst in the family. When my uncle died a few year's ago the whole family was fighting over his stuff and money. My grandfather passed away a week ago and we are trying to plan his funeral and everyone is fighting like a pack of lions fighting over a zebra. Gee my mom hates my aunt. Then my mom and her sister and brother are arguing all most every day

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Grief reactions. People are upset and every little grievance they have comes to mind and they fight about everything. It’s easier than grieving. My brother and I fought over my father’s car…. It was worth $15K hardly worth not speaking to each other for 5 years. I’m ashamed that I was so angry for so long about something that didn’t matter at all. Now my brother is with dad. I miss them both very much.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@Muthafukajones at least my grandfather doesn't have much money left at all. We all decided to use it on the funeral.