For those who have never had children why or why not?

I made that decision long ago to be childless because I didn't think I could raise a child. I think I'm better as an uncle than I would be a father. Children deserve stability and a chance at a great life. I'm not stable and I could never give them what they deserve. That's why I decided against having children of my own.

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calicuz · 56-60, M

Sometimes it's more about if one can change their lifestyle to suit the child's needs. If you know you're not stable and can't become stable then that was a very wise choice on your part, and I give you your props.