So my youngest older sister thinks my oldest older sister is bipolar

@cherokeepatti She didn't even give us a chance to help. And my youngest older sister helped with about everything. Not to mention there were 50 people there 😑 idk she's acting weird. Too much family drama we used to not have any

@pride49 why is she constantly short at the restaurant she owns? does she not know how to run a business financially, is she using the money for something she’s not proud of or what? I know a woman who had a little cafe in a small town, she was bringing in $300 per day at that restaurant, 6 days a week. It was good money back then. Then going to a nearby casino every night and playing slots till the wee hours of the morning. When it came time to file taxes she didn’t have money to dig up to pay them, she was gambling everything and not paying her quarterly payments. Had to sell the business to pay the taxes.

@cherokeepatti no I mean she's short tempered with my sister. And everyone else. One moment she'll be all nice and the next angry at everybody. She constantly talks about keeping personal and business separate yet complains to the younger sister and gossips about the other coworkers. She was surprised when the employees got mad when she randomly lowered their wages without telling them because they worked too few hours. Which she should have just told them.Of course the servers make 50 to a 150 dollars sometimes in tips with only a half shift. And my younger sister is tired of being considered kitchen manager yet still not getting a good raise in 12 years working there. Of course I knew working there would be like this which is why I declined working there. Because at the time I knew my older sister and her husband are hypocrites. (Brother in law is gone now) but I do notice her personality will randomly change sometimes. Idk

@pride49 She’s let her success go to her head. She sounds like a narcissist in doing those things. Hypocrisy is their specialty.

@cherokeepatti Yes she does have this sense of entitlement. If she keeps it up my younger sister will quit, and without her help the restaurant will fail. She was going to quit a year ago, then the older sisters husband died and my dad gave the younger sister the guilt trip about helping her keep the restaurant a float. She's getting to that point again

@pride49 When a person takes things for granted they are very liable to lose it all. Just sayin. And you dad needs to stop telling a grown child what to do if she feels she is being abused. He is just making the situation worse. That happened in my family and I stood up for myself and refused to allow my sister to abuse me in that way. She hatched up a plan for me to move out of my 2-bedroom apartment and co-sign a lease with her on a 3-bedroom apartment and split the bills (me paying 2/3) with some sad story about needing a larger apartment so her children could come and visit (legally) on the weekends when my daughter was gone. No privacy for me at any time that way, I’d be dealing with their problems, noise & mess, have to change my daughters school, have to take off of work and pack & move everything, pay for the phone deposit & apartment deposit etc. Not to much to ask of me was it? And she got the family angry at me for not going along with this scheme. I didn’t trust that sister with my stuff especially my banking and other papers, and didn’t like her attitude of entitlement. Plus I got the feeling my sister hated her job and was wanting to quit. Who would have been paying ALL of the rent then? It would be me. And then she did quit her job, another relative gave her money to live for several months.

@cherokeepatti yeah that sux