So my youngest older sister thinks my oldest older sister is bipolar

@cherokeepatti Yes she does have this sense of entitlement. If she keeps it up my younger sister will quit, and without her help the restaurant will fail. She was going to quit a year ago, then the older sisters husband died and my dad gave the younger sister the guilt trip about helping her keep the restaurant a float. She's getting to that point again

@pride49 When a person takes things for granted they are very liable to lose it all. Just sayin. And you dad needs to stop telling a grown child what to do if she feels she is being abused. He is just making the situation worse. That happened in my family and I stood up for myself and refused to allow my sister to abuse me in that way. She hatched up a plan for me to move out of my 2-bedroom apartment and co-sign a lease with her on a 3-bedroom apartment and split the bills (me paying 2/3) with some sad story about needing a larger apartment so her children could come and visit (legally) on the weekends when my daughter was gone. No privacy for me at any time that way, I’d be dealing with their problems, noise & mess, have to change my daughters school, have to take off of work and pack & move everything, pay for the phone deposit & apartment deposit etc. Not to much to ask of me was it? And she got the family angry at me for not going along with this scheme. I didn’t trust that sister with my stuff especially my banking and other papers, and didn’t like her attitude of entitlement. Plus I got the feeling my sister hated her job and was wanting to quit. Who would have been paying ALL of the rent then? It would be me. And then she did quit her job, another relative gave her money to live for several months.

@cherokeepatti yeah that sux