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If you got a chance to repair a relation , with whom you want to repair ?

in my life I want to repair my relation with mom , but I know that it will never happen

Mktonght · 61-69, M

Never is a long time.
My son and daughter had a terrible fight over 8 years ago and they not only quit talking they refused to be at any of the family gatherings. Thus, our entire family was stressed, and we ended up having separate gatherings for about every holiday.
It may seem crazy to you, but we all prayed eagerly that somehow, they would forgive the situation and learn that family is important and worth forgiveness.
This year for the first time, we all came together and talked without the hate.
So it is never a situation that is helpfell.
Have some faith and don't give up.

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Mktonght · 61-69, M

@taneegoan Whatever you did is not worth her never forgiving. Everyone sins and makes mistakes. In my life I have been so ashamed of certain things, but please don't give up trying.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Mktonghti know sir but I think i really can't wait so long for that

Babaloo64 · 41-45, M

@taneegoan would u need help?

Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F

My husbands daughter from his first marriage. She hates me and our adopted children. I wish she would see there's enough love for everyone and we are not a threat unless she makes us one.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Patientlywaiting i think with time being you will became close to each other

Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F

@taneegoan I pray that's true. 🙏

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Patientlywaiting Just take your time with her. Keep the lines of communication open.

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

I think repairing a relationship doesn't prevent what caused the relationship from failing to occur again. Fuck that shit, cut toxic people out of your life and don't give them a second thought cuz they sure as shit aren't thinking of you.

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taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Longpatrol a relation with mom can't never been forgotten

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

@taneegoan It'll be down to your own wellbeing. You have to look out for yourself first

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Longpatrol i know it

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

I don’t have any family left, but I had an old roommate that I really miss. I was 21, dumb and it was my fault our friendship got messed up. She was awesome and we had so much fun. She definitely deserved better than me.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@AlchemyFox i can understand about your feeling hope time will make it easy

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@AlchemyFox Keep the lines of communication open with her.

SW-User

Never say never
My Mom and I had not spoken in years ...when I had my son that all changed....is our relationship perfect? No ..but it's better than in was in the past

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@SW-User She wants to see her grandson. Keep the lines of communication open.

SW-User

@bhatjc give it a chance ..keep an open mind but expect nothing

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@SW-User That is true. Only time will tell

Lifehues · 51-55, M

Keep trying, some relationships are worth it. If you are thinking of this, then it is definitely worth it.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Lifehues i know

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Never give up, its never too late

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darkknightt · M

You should try it still, and apologise to her even though its not your fault. You never know God forbid if something happens to you or her and it will be left unspoken.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@darkknightt i begged to her a lot lot times in these 4 years but no ice melting i feel for a single moment from her side

darkknightt · M

@taneegoan any idea what would melt her heart?

SW-User

With a former friend... we had cross words... when we last saw each other, and it was totally unnecessary.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@SW-User it's happened with me too , I begged my apology to her and try to make her understand about her misunderstand about my attitude but I feel her higher education and high status in society became big wall for melting that with me , i forgave her by my side and still remain silent about , few other friends blame her still for that but I never blame her really

Eklipse · F

My silly cousin I suppose. But it's tainted now.

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Eklipse · F

@taneegoan It's beyond repair. We don't talk anymore. Results in a catfight each time but she [i]did[/i] fraud me.

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Eklipse i can understood you feel betrayed

Eklipse · F

@taneegoan More than betrayed.

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

We don't have a broken relationship nor a falling out but I wish I was a lot closer with my brother than I am.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Starcrossed Keep the lines of communication open with him. Always be talking

SW-User

I tried but they didnt so fuck it now i dont to

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SW-User

@OldMan70 there comes a time when you have to give up when so much time has passed that what you once had has been ruined

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Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M

Why do you think that will never happen

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Bklynbadboy12 bcoz i know my mom how hard she is in her thinking and she told me that not wanna saw my face till she is alive

SatyrService · M

an entire pack of "Once Friends" I made a mistake,, they say
"if somone is saying evil crap about you,, remain silent they will eventually reveal their
perfidy"
someone did,, and i stayed silent, now many I was connected to for YEARS now will not so much as visit.
it was My Fault I did not defend myself
now, I can no longer do so, and Miss this might crew

deadteddy · 26-30, F

I would like to have a better relationship with my dad.

Justafantasy · M

Parents are forgiven people

taneegoan · 31-35, F

@Justafantasynot for a girl like me

Dino11 · M

Would just like to have my parents back.

Silentpleasure · 31-35, F

The love of my life. I miss her :(

WhateverWorks · 36-40

I wish I had a better relationship with my mother, but I accepted a long time ago that she is who she is and I have no control over that. A ‘healthy person’ can’t make a ‘healthy relationship’ with someone who chooses to stay unhealthy.

Spoiledbrat · F

My husband.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@Spoiledbrat Only time will tell. Keep the lines of communication open

Krishh · 46-50, M

Havw two in mind.

With one of my friend. A misunderstanding between our girlfriends lead to short talks and then long silence

Also with my former girlfriend, who was instrumental in overcoming my different times.

bijouxbroussard · F

I’m trying to repair things with my youngest sister. We will need each other when our parents are gone. She betrayed my trust, and it’s difficult to get past that, but her problems include mental illness and substance abuse. She seems to be trying to overcome them, so I’m trying to hang in there.