My mom saw my sex toy in my room and shamed me for it 🙂

your mum needs to get out more and get a life so she can get out of yours. I knew my daughters had toys and i was more happy they had them than the real thing

She told me that it’s not right to have that toy and that I should change my character and all that but I think it’s better for me to have that than to go and have sex with guys …

My Mom saw mine on my nightstand. She later mentioned it to my sister who reminded her that we found hers when we were little.

find her toy, which she probably hides, and do the same--take a picture and send it to her

Absolutely no reason for you to be embarrassed at all. Masturbation is a perfectly normal and natural personal, unless invited into it, function. It is your mother who should feel embarrassed. For showing such uncaring disdain as to share something she clearly wasn't asked to be part of.

Ahhhh when i was a lad my mum found a stash of H&E photos i had(it was a black and white nudist magazine)..Im sure most mums have found some kind of masturbatory matter.

I thing to be shamed for.
But probably best to hide it better from now on.

you need to get some privacy or move out

Tell her it's not a toy, it's for a new job

At first your mother thought it was a fire extinguisher 😁

You need to keep them hidden and I would definitely be moving out.

Their house, their rules I’m afraid.

I really wish catfishes were more obvious 🤣🤣🤣

My dad told me before i was too young to even properly grasp the idea of legal and illegal that id go to prison for going on a normal porn website. I didnt even know what was on the site bar a naked women and i ended up having this weird feeling of fear and disgust at the idea of liking girls, even though i liked them. My parents also found this little note i wrote of what i wanted to do with sort of friends with benefits girl i knew. Super tame. He called it 'evil' and threatened to have it read out in school assembly. So now fear, shame and disgust associated with the idea of relationships. When i learnt how to touch myself around 16yo my mum would sneak upstairs to "clean" to get near to the room i used for the pc whenever she thought i might be using it to get myself off. Id here the open and then BANG! If she caught me she would laugh 'its lucky your dad didnt catch you i just think its funny'. I eventually plucked up the courage to ask a counseller if it was normal to masturbate and she said 'yes and i dislike religious parents who demonise it'. I tell my dad this and he says angrily 'of course she would have to say that! You can do it in the toilet!' So now im even more confused than i was before i asked (bare in mind im a kid) and the toilet thing made it feel even more dirty. Pair that with the fact that the only school sex ed i got was 'stis are bad and gross, wear a gross condom' i have no idea how so many people just seemed to know everything the first day of 18. (Heck i didnt even know that age meant anything)