My mom saw my sex toy in my room and shamed me for it 🙂

Okay so I bought myself a toy to pleasure myself and it was in my bed underneath the blankets and in the morning my little brother (5 y/o) was jumping around there and my mom saw it and then she starts acting dumb and asking me “ what’s this “? “
And I said “ it’s a toy “ and then she goes “ what do you use it for “ and I was like “ for myself “ and then she goes “ where do u use it “ and I go for my body …. I know damm well that she knew what it was

I didn’t feel embarrasss that she saw it but I felt violated when she took a picture of it and send it to her friend ..

Sometimes she complains and says that people say that her kids are bad and all that but now I see that clearly it’s her going around spreading private information and family matters to people ..
so obviously they will have their own judgement

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pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

My dad told me before i was too young to even properly grasp the idea of legal and illegal that id go to prison for going on a normal porn website. I didnt even know what was on the site bar a naked women and i ended up having this weird feeling of fear and disgust at the idea of liking girls, even though i liked them. My parents also found this little note i wrote of what i wanted to do with sort of friends with benefits girl i knew. Super tame. He called it 'evil' and threatened to have it read out in school assembly. So now fear, shame and disgust associated with the idea of relationships. When i learnt how to touch myself around 16yo my mum would sneak upstairs to "clean" to get near to the room i used for the pc whenever she thought i might be using it to get myself off. Id here the open and then BANG! If she caught me she would laugh 'its lucky your dad didnt catch you i just think its funny'. I eventually plucked up the courage to ask a counseller if it was normal to masturbate and she said 'yes and i dislike religious parents who demonise it'. I tell my dad this and he says angrily 'of course she would have to say that! You can do it in the toilet!' So now im even more confused than i was before i asked (bare in mind im a kid) and the toilet thing made it feel even more dirty. Pair that with the fact that the only school sex ed i got was 'stis are bad and gross, wear a gross condom' i have no idea how so many people just seemed to know everything the first day of 18. (Heck i didnt even know that age meant anything)

Cherryblossom10 · 22-25, F

Wow damm I don’t understand what is wrong with your dad. , maybe he had a fear that you would fuck better than him or something … usually dads are supposed to be supportive around that topic .. sorry that u went through that .. just know now that it’s normal to like girls and to watch porn @pianoplayingsteve

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

@Cherryblossom10 oh i slowly learnt things as an adult and worked out he had been supressing some very extreme desires whilst insisting i have the sexual drive of an inanimate object. I could explain a bit more over pm

Cherryblossom10 · 22-25, F

Okay pm x @pianoplayingsteve

Carazaa · F

@pianoplayingsteve What I have taught my kids is from the Bible. and that is making love is the most beautiful act in the world because it makes a new life, and it bonds two people for life in a committed Marriage. I recommend that they wait until marriage to touch because of that and saving themselves for one person for life. But masturbation is normal.