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Is it a good idea to marry someone who does not speak your common language well? Considering we don't have any other language to communicate in

Because we have different mother tongues.
SW-User
Hmm. Language is the bridge of communication. At least the two sides should make effort to learn a common language and narrow the gap in communication that could cause lots of problems.
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
It seems strange that you have known each other long enough to decide to spend the rest of your lives together but haven't solved the communications issue ..
Don't worry, you can use sign language

Serious answer, no. Communication is a real common problem in many relationships, and that's without a language barrier
CestManan · 46-50, F
How would you fall in love in the first place if communication is difficult?
@CestManan A mail-order bride is a woman who lists herself in catalogs and is selected by a man for marriage is one way. moving to a different country and meeting someone. ect
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SW-User
@CestManan [i]Exactly![/i]
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
It has been the biggest problem in my marriage. I wouldn’t recommend it
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It sounds like a bad idea to me.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
All I can say is my own parents shared one common language which was neither of their native language. German!

The marriage last not even two years with that second language in common.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
If you both will to learn two different languages. Yes sure. But if you both feel uncomfortable, I suggest both of you sit and discuss about it.
SW-User
No. Communication is everything in relationships be it marriage, friendship, coworkers..
Languages can be learned, but it would be good to do that before getting married.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
If you are both willing to learn, be considerate and grow together. You'll be fine.
Hard. And you will likely not "get" each other's idioms.
NO coz sign language is not everyone's cup of tea/coffee.
yes if you love each other . it will find a way to work.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Is this a 'mail order bride' sort of thing?
SW-User
🤔. Arguments could be fun 😂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I wouldn’t

 
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