Please lay it on me and don't mince words, pure amnesty from me. Would you describe my descriptions of my relationship
with my mom as "hatred" from my end? For those who have seen my posts....
41-45, F
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Hurt, frustrated, angry. All those are valid emotions. I don’t see hatred. I think you sincerely want more from that relationship but don’t know how you can get there because of her thoughts and actions. I think even a little sad, if im being honest. Which probably makes you even more angry cause sad is really hard to process from there.
@foldedunfolding just my opinion, my friend.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow oh you stepped not one foot wrong here! definitely sad. very depressed, in fact. cried myself to sleep last night.
@foldedunfolding I truly think if you can fully accept the sadness (anger is always a secondary emotion,) you will be able to grieve… not your Mum so much as the relationship you wish you could have if she was different. After the stages of grief, you’ll come to acceptance where you can let go of the hurt and see her as someone that is very sad herself and doesn’t know how to deal and move past all of it. Love you.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow honestly i feel i have done all that, and have come to the conclusion that i would not like a relationship with her..my counselor cant accept that. i am only going to counseling bc my siblings are using my beloved nieces and nephews as pawns....but yeah..it is rough as hell. love you too, girly..tysm
@foldedunfolding 🖤🖤🖤🤗🤗🤗