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If someone really hurt you, would you want them back?

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agotamaniscalistic · 41-45, M
There is a lot of subjectivity in this. Who is hurting me? hurt in what sense :D In some sense I don't mind them hurting me but, yeah a bit of context could help.
Eklipse · F
@agotamaniscalistic You're philosophising and masochist xD I asked would you accept back someone that deeply hurt you. I don't see too much "subjective" in it. Be creative xD
agotamaniscalistic · 41-45, M
@Eklipse Well, I wasn't philosophizing for sure, I can tell you that. As far as accepting people that have really hurt you emotionally or physically in a relationship, one does that initially in relationships, especially when they are very new to it (like your first girlfriend or boyfriend) but with time, people realize it is such a big mistake.

The more you do it, the more you are taken for granted and then you grow numb. So, no !
Eklipse · F
@agotamaniscalistic I'm numb in actuality. I just think deeply and know deep down what I'd want it's just surreal and out of my league. Probably entirely my fault I'm in this mess too.
agotamaniscalistic · 41-45, M
@Eklipse Trust me, our emotions are the biggest strengths & weaknesses too. Dont be so hard on yourself. Most of us are wired to be that way and in a way, there is a lot of factors from the society & the environment around us, have contributed to making us wired that way.

You will get through this too. I am not patronizing you, but I am just being very honest. Time is the best healer.
Eklipse · F
@agotamaniscalistic I didn't find time to heal me. Just a way to accept without being offered a chance. Lifes cruel like that.