Things he has said to me since walking in the door 30 mins ago
1. If your driving is reflective of your anxiety, I'd hate to be behind you on the road. (This was completely unprovoked and out of context)
2. I'm going out Wednesday evening, sorry but I have a life. (I have literally never had a problem with him going out, in fact I prefer when he's gone).
3. You'll need to figure out something else for your doc appointments moving forward. I have other people who need me to be available. (His parents are elderly and live hours away)
4. You're in your 40s but you pass out after a workout, you pass out when you're on your periods.... You're more like a 90 yr old and you need someone who is gonna be a caretaker to you. That's not gonna be me. (Funny .... Long before I ever moved to AZ to be with him, he would spend hours on the phone making promises about how he would "take care of me").
5. What if I was the one who needed MY ass wiped??? Who's gonna help ME? Not you, when you need this much help for yourself. (LOL I have never asked him for jack squat, especially to have my "ass wiped")
6. Figure out your own way to work.
I did nothing to provoke this. He literally walked in in a bad mood and I have not heard the end of it ever since. I am saving every penny for the chance to get out of here and get a little place of my own, but it's gonna take time. I have rent, bills, and medical expenses.
I've cancelled my therapy services, my psych services, and will be cancelling my two upcoming appointments as well. Every dime I make needs to be put into the moving out fund.
2. I'm going out Wednesday evening, sorry but I have a life. (I have literally never had a problem with him going out, in fact I prefer when he's gone).
3. You'll need to figure out something else for your doc appointments moving forward. I have other people who need me to be available. (His parents are elderly and live hours away)
4. You're in your 40s but you pass out after a workout, you pass out when you're on your periods.... You're more like a 90 yr old and you need someone who is gonna be a caretaker to you. That's not gonna be me. (Funny .... Long before I ever moved to AZ to be with him, he would spend hours on the phone making promises about how he would "take care of me").
5. What if I was the one who needed MY ass wiped??? Who's gonna help ME? Not you, when you need this much help for yourself. (LOL I have never asked him for jack squat, especially to have my "ass wiped")
6. Figure out your own way to work.
I did nothing to provoke this. He literally walked in in a bad mood and I have not heard the end of it ever since. I am saving every penny for the chance to get out of here and get a little place of my own, but it's gonna take time. I have rent, bills, and medical expenses.
I've cancelled my therapy services, my psych services, and will be cancelling my two upcoming appointments as well. Every dime I make needs to be put into the moving out fund.
41-45, F
