GohantheThird · M
Honestly, there's not a lot you can do. If you tell them what's going on, you'll only justify their position to keep you out of their lives. You could continue to try and convince said friend to stay away from the husband (he is married after all and more trouble than he's worth), but it may only strenthen their bond.
There's also option C: do nothing and let these idiots be consumed by their own drama and know that it can't harm you in anyway. It's good that you care, but they're all grown adults who can make their own decisions. It's one stupid decision after another, but it's theirs to make. I say let the chips fall where they may.
There's also option C: do nothing and let these idiots be consumed by their own drama and know that it can't harm you in anyway. It's good that you care, but they're all grown adults who can make their own decisions. It's one stupid decision after another, but it's theirs to make. I say let the chips fall where they may.
WindTherapy · 56-60, M
@GohantheThird I'd agree with option C as well.
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GohantheThird · M
@akindheart indeed it is. Trust me, C is always the best option for this sort of thing.
akindheart · 70-79, F
@WillaKissing that is my struggle. i know i would want to know and i feel complicit for not telling her. she gave up so much for this guy
WillaKissing · 61-69, M
@akindheart Would you want a guy to play you like that? Me No.
Would you want your friend to tell you about being played? me Yes.
Would you want your friend to tell you about being played? me Yes.
akindheart · 70-79, F
@GoFish we haven't spoken in years. we were friends on facebook but i am not sure if we are now
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
akindheart · 70-79, F
@helenoftroy2000 give what back?
helenoftroy2000 · 22-25, F
@akindheart sorry,, it was confusing
WillaKissing · 61-69, M
Thank you for BC.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
akindheart · 70-79, F
@PatientlyWaiting25 she travelled with me to Portugal. it was a disaster in every way. we are no longer speaking either...
akindheart · 70-79, F
@lissah true but she was a friend and my ep friend has no idea
WindTherapy · 56-60, M
It's a painful position to be in. It's not the first (nor will be the last) time hearts and feelings override better judgement. For me personally I'd stay clear of the drama. IF things unfold in such a way your friend comes back into the picture, you can accept them in and not have been involved in whatever chaos occurs.
akindheart · 70-79, F
@WindTherapy i was chatting with a friend on here that i have known for a long time. he told me his story and i realized that i owe her nothing. she married him and let her suffer the karma.
myotherlife · 61-69, M
akindheart · 70-79, F
@myotherlife LOL. hey do you remember me and Oceandock on EP and all of our adventures?
myotherlife · 61-69, M
@akindheart Yes
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
akindheart · 70-79, F
@Crazywaterspring i mourned the loss of my friendship with Oceandock and i was nothing but good to her. it is sad that we don't speak but i dont' owe her anything now.
Mamapolo2016 · F
This is not like you caught them at it. All you know is what someone (someone who might benefit if the couple breaks up) told you.
I’d stay clear out of it. If you’re not friends currently, it’s going to feel like spite.
I’d also ditch the would-be home wrecker. She sounds like trouble.
I’d stay clear out of it. If you’re not friends currently, it’s going to feel like spite.
I’d also ditch the would-be home wrecker. She sounds like trouble.
akindheart · 70-79, F
@Mamapolo2016 this so called friend is definitely not telling me the whole truth. i believe she has been egging this on for a long time. over 5 years to be honest. after our trip, i will never speak to her again. she had major issues
i also dont' want to tell her because it will come out like "I told you so"
i also dont' want to tell her because it will come out like "I told you so"
jackjjackson · M