How to not let this situation destroy me

I was talking to a girl for a while on social media, i won’t say which site , I thought it was going good, she seemed quite interested in me, but just recently she’s stopped responding to my messages, and I’m wondering why??

Paranoia has creeped in thinking, well why’s this? What’s happened? Has someone approached her and told her things about me, which changed the way she thinks about me and now she’s lost interest?

But then, why didn’t she message me back and tell me why she stopped messaging me? I just feel a bit suspicious about it….very disappointed….,and very angry too, I feel like expressing my anger at her, disappointment too, to try to get to the bottom of why this has happened??

I feel really angry and aggressive right now at the suspicion someone might of put her off me by telling her false information…..but I have no evidence or proof of that.

What can I do considering what I’ve told you?

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

Most likely she met someone else. If it was meant to be then I wouldn't have ended.

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 as you know, i suffer with paranoia at times so just clarifying something, are you insinuating that you think you know me personally and that 'i'm' trying to be ' someone else'? are you insinuating that? or is that my paranoia? appreciate if you could clarify that for me.

sorry i just took offence because i get paranoid at times, so might of took it out of context.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@durinsBane1983 yes. This was your paranoia and it was taken out of context. I didn't say anything like that. I said "if it was meant to be, it wouldn't have ended".

This woman wasn't meant to be yours long term. It's sad but it's like forcing a piece of jigsaw into the wrong hole if it isn't meant for you. You don't want that because it's not the right fit xx

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 aaahh understood, thanks for clarifying it and your understanding, my respect for you is restored! best wishes. x

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 wow! what made you give me a hugging emoji?? it wasn't really necessary.

i suspect you believe things about either my life or me, that aren't true, you think things other than what i've stated in my posts....if you do? tell me what your honest thoughts are about me? what do you perceive? is somebody telling you something else i'm not aware of? lol, give me your honest thoughts and perceptions of me and i'll tell you if you're right or wrong? i would like to discuss it in a bit more depth if you're willing?

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@durinsBane1983 Don't over think this. I hug everyone. It's just something I do. 🤗🤗🫂🫂 🤗🤗

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@durinsBane1983 you got that from a hug emoji?? If only I had that effect on other men. I could conquer the world! 💪😂💪

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KimberKimKim · 31-35, F

@durinsBane1983 jeez dude if you talked to that other woman like you’re talking to @PatientlyWaiting25 no wonder she quit talking to you.

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@durinsBane1983 no worries 🙂