If you have had PTSD, chronic anxiety etc...

For years and years, so that you almost feel your identity is That itself.... do you ever wonder, what if I AM not as capable as others (b/c of SO many years of trauma or anxiety etc.) ? What if I'm really NOT a good candidate for love or dating b/c of these severe issues? I'm not saying it's true, but it's how i feel and I wonder if anyone else feels that sometimes...