Fuck up situation?

Have you ever felt that someone you have feelings for is always by your side, but his heart isn’t? It feels like you’re the most important person in his life, yet his heart and mind still belong to someone else. How messed up is that kind of feeling? And how do you escape a situation when he keeps forcing himself to stay in your life?

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Jayghost · 51-55, M

Well I have the same situation with a girl that I really like but I believe that she just likes me as a friend and nothing else. I'm good with that. Because I'd love to have her in my life anyway I can. It may not be the way I want but she's still in my life regardless. If can't have her any other way I'm still happy because I still do have her in my life. So if you can deal with the "just being friends" thing then by all means please do it! It's still very nice to be around them.

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Jayghost how can you deal with that? I can’t. I feel like im better off without him than having him feeling like an option or what. I want to have peace. I feel like i dont care about the friendship. I like to prioritize my peace than having him but feels like it’s ruining me

Jayghost · 51-55, M

@ihavenoone Well to each their own. I couldn't imagine what my life would be like without her in it at all! Although I would really love to have sex with her, I'm just as happy to have her as a friend and to be able to talk to her about almost anything. It's actually very nice to have a friend that is a girl. As a guy it's rather enjoyable to get a woman's point of view on certain things. I'm sure you can understand that, being a woman and having some guy friends right? I'm guessing you do have guy friends that are just friends with, right?