If I had a son that was addicted to pornography

I'd send him to Papua New Guinea to live the life of a villager for 6 months to a year in the villages. He won't be able to watch porn and that should teach him a lesson indeed. Just a thought. Watching it once in a while is OK though.

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TexChik · F

Unless he is born blind, he is going to find pornography. Until the computer age, people had to rely on magazines, skin flicks at the movie house, or personal movie projectors. Computers make it instantaneous and confidential. As a parent, you have to talk to them about it and what they are feeling. Been there and done that. I have control over what he can access online here, so I know when he has been searching or what he was watching. When he was younger, we throttled it back to nudity only/

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@TexChik they can easily find ways around.

TexChik · F

@UltimateDemiGoddess Not with our nest router. I can shut off wifi access to any device in range. Sure he can 5G it with his phone ,but he wants to see it on his computer. The main thing is that they need guidance, accountability, and know that we know when they are looking.

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@TexChik sounds like he's not addicted. That's a good thing.

TexChik · F

@UltimateDemiGoddess All the homemade flesh lights made out of a folded up tube sock and lotion stuck to his floor in the yearly teen years had me wondering. That kid is going to be just like his father 🥴

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@TexChik hope that's a good thing

TexChik · F

@UltimateDemiGoddess Yes. Young men seem to have a lot of sexual energy, and my husband only grins when something we see reminds us of that.

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@TexChik okay that's great!

TexChik · F

@UltimateDemiGoddess As parents, we all want to hide from this issue, but we have to be more involved if we want to keep them out of trouble.

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@TexChik I'm not a parent, but that sounds good.